Swingers Sites

There is a lot of dating swinger’s sites that you can find. Just find one that is dedicated to gay swingers and then go from there, many will also have a personals section, or you may wish to go staright to a gay personals site. It is best to try to find swingers that are at a good location for you. Some people prefer to have their swinging partners be in another town so that they can keep their private life private.

Meeting Up

It is wise to meet up with the person before you hook up with them. Meet up for drinks or coffee, something very casual. This will allow you to see if you both have a good connection. If you cannot connect and have no chemistry, then chances are it is not going to be pleasant once you get into the bedroom together.

Hooking Up

After you have met up with them and have decided whether or not you want to hook up you will need to figure out when and where to do this. Decide if you want to go to a swinger’s meeting or a swinging club and go from there. You both should be comfortable with the location that you hook up at.

Car Parks

A lot of the time, dogging will take place in car parks. There will be a lot of car parks that will be just for straight dogging. However, if you know how to find the right people you can find out where gay male doggers like to meet up and get together.

Looking Online

If you look online for the local dogging areas for gay and bi males in your area you will find out where they like to meet up and when. Just be sure that the information that you look at is recent as it changes often. Whenever a place gets used a lot the police will often catch wind of it and will begin to patrol the area.

Meeting Up

If you are ever unsure about whether or not you are about to meet up with fellow doggers, there are a few different ways that you can tell. The best way to tell is to watch them for a moment. They will usually have a stuffed dog on their front or back window. See if they turn their lights on and see where they go from there before you approach.

Swingers Clubs

There are plenty of swingers clubs out there. There are clubs that are straight only, gay only and ones that will allow for bisexual behavior. It is important that you know what your club will and won’t allow. The rules are very important with every swingers club. If they are not followed you could get yourself kicked out and even banned from the club. Look for clubs that will at least have bisexual nights if they don’t allow for it every night. You will find that this is a great way for you to experiment.

Bisexual Clubs

If you go to a swingers club that will allow for bisexual behavior all of the time, then you don’t have to wait any specific night to try it out. You will find that it is best if you tell the person that you are interested in that it is your first time trying this out and that you may need to go slow. Find a person that can be accommodating.

Looking Online

Look online for swingers that are gay and lesbian in your area. This is a great way for you to start off looking for any organizations that they may be in. You will find that the more people that you meet online the more organizations that you will be introduced to. Whether you go on swinging sites for dating or swinging sites meant for people that just want to socialize you will be able to find plenty of organizations to choose from if you just ask around.

Finding Local Organizations

It is important that you know where you would like to celebrate your swinging life versus where you would like to keep it a secret. A lot of swingers will have double lives and if this is the case, they do not want to be a part of an organization that is in the same town as all of their family, friends and coworkers. Find an organization that will allow you the ability to be at a comfortable distance from your home and your personal life.

Finding Other Couples

Look for couples that will be accommodating and really help you to feel relaxed. It always helps if you are all sexually attracted to each other as your bisexual feelings will come more naturally to you. If you go with a couple that you are not as attracted to you may have a harder time expressing yourself sexually. It will of course also help that you, your partner and the other couple are able to get along as well. Meet up for drinks beforehand to get to know each other.

Start Off Slow

It is smart to start off slow. You may not want to actually partake in any type of sexual activities with these people. Let them know that you are simply experimenting and that you will need to go at your own pace. Start off kissing and petting and then go from there. You may find that you want to go further and you may find that you have no interest in taking things anywhere past this. Remember that at any point if you begin to feel uncomfortable to stop.

Male Swingers

There are a lot more male swingers than there are female swingers. Males usually tend to have more of an interest in swinging than women. This means that there will be a lot more men that are interested in it than women. If a man is with a woman that is bisexual, then he can usually get her to want to become interested in swinging if he can find the right bisexual female swinger.

Female Swingers

Because there are so few female swingers it is common that they are in high demand in general. However, when you get to be a bisexual female swinger you will find that this means that you are going to be popular with the men and the women.

Swinging Couples

When you meet up with swinging couples that want to just add a third, then they will often look for a woman before a man. This means that she needs to be interested in both the man and the woman so that nobody is left out. Be sure that as a couple looking for a bi female swinger that you don’t go with the first woman that you see in case you don’t get along or are not attracted to her.